為什麼人總是聽不進別人的忠告呢？因為大多數的人其實都很清楚自己的問題在哪裡，只是不願意去面對、去改變。那為什麼不想改變呢？因為希望別人先為了自己而改變，所以人生就變得痛苦了。
Why do people often ignore others' advice? Because most people actually know their own problems; they just aren't willing to accept or change them. So, why don't they want to change? Because we always hope others will change for us first. This is why life becomes so painful.心18
