上次分享了陪伴我走過低潮的歌曲——Taylor Swift 的《Anti-Hero》
今天,想分享另一首對我意義非凡的歌曲。它不只是一首歌,更像是一道陽光,劃破我長夜裡那片濃霧——
那首歌,是 Miley Cyrus 的《Flowers》。
▏我可以自己買花
“ I I can buy myself flowers Write my name in the sand ”
Miley 的歌詞不複雜,卻句句鏗鏘有力。她略帶沙啞的磁性嗓音,唱出了那種:「我不需要誰來定義我的價值,我自己,就是我的全部。」
第一次聽到這首歌,是在低潮一段時間後,努力振作、運動、拓展生活的時候。
Miley 的歌詞像是有人輕輕地握住我的手,說:「嘿,你可以的。」
▏自愛,是一場革命
《Flowers》的旋律輕快,但它傳遞的訊息卻像是一場靜靜發生的革命。
你不需要立刻強大,也不用假裝灑脫,它溫柔地提醒你:「妳值得被愛,尤其是被自己愛。」
這首歌陪我走過很多自我懷疑的時刻。
我開始學著一個人去咖啡廳、去看電影、去旅行。
開始寫日記、練習誠實地面對內心的聲音。
學著面對傷痕,而不是藏起來。
那些看似微不足道的小步伐,都是我一點一滴重新愛自己的證明。
我不再等著別人來「給我花」,我自己買花給自己——那感覺真的太酷了。
▏你的那首勇氣之歌是?
每個人低潮時,或許都有那麼一首歌,像是夜裡的一盞燈,陪你穿越陰影。
對我來說,是《Flowers》。
那你呢?是哪一首?
歡迎你留言告訴我,和我分享你的歌單。
Miley Cyrus 《 Flowers 》
We were good, we were gold
Kinda dream that can't be sold
We were right 'til we weren't
Built a home and watched it burn
Mm, I didn't wanna leave you, I didn't wanna lie
Started to cry, but then remembered I
I can buy myself flowers
Write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours
Say things you don't understand
I can take myself dancing
And I can hold my own hand
Yeah, I can love me better than you can
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Paint my nails cherry red
Match the roses that you left
No remorse, no regret
I forgive every word you said
Ooh, I didn't wanna leave you, baby, I didn't wanna fight
Started to cry, but then remembered I
I can buy myself flowers
Write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours, yeah
Say things you don't understand
I can take myself dancing, yeah
I can hold my own hand
Yeah, I can love me better than you can
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Can love me better, I- (ooh, I)
I didn't wanna leave you, I didn't wanna fight
Started to cry, but then remembered I
I can buy myself flowers (uh-huh)
Write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours (yeah)
Say things you don't understand (you never will)
I can take myself dancing, yeah
I can hold my own hand
Yeah, I can love me better than
Yeah, I can love me better than you can
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby (oh, oh)
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby (than you can)
Can love me better, I can love me better, baby
Can love me better, I-





















