🌳 佛陀菩提公園 Episode 7：與人爭執

🌳 佛陀菩提公園 / Buddha Bodhi Park 📜 第 7 篇 / Episode 7 ⏳ 小煩惱：與人爭執 / Daily Trouble: Arguing with Others --- 🧑 須菩提 / Subhuti： 「佛陀啊，我有時與朋友或家人意見不同，就忍不住爭辯，最後大家都不開心，該怎麼辦呢？」 "Buddha, sometimes when I disagree with friends or family, I cannot help arguing. In the end everyone feels unhappy. What should I do?" 🧘 佛陀 / Buddha： 「須菩提啊，世間眾人因緣不同，看法自然不同。若執著於自己一定正確，爭執便會生起。」 "Subhuti, people in the world have different conditions and experiences, so their views naturally differ. When one clings to being right, arguments arise." 🧑 須菩提 / Subhuti： 「原來如此，我總想證明自己是對的，反而忽略了彼此的感受。」 "I see. I often try to prove that I am right and forget about each other's feelings." 🧘 佛陀 / Buddha： 「若能先放下勝負之心，多聽一分、多理解一分，爭執自然會減少。」 "If you let go of the need to win and listen with more understanding, arguments will naturally lessen." --- 小結 / Reflection： 與人爭執，多半源自「我一定是對的」的執著。 若能多一分理解、少一分勝負心，人際關係就會更和諧。 "Arguments often arise from the attachment to being right. With more understanding and less desire to win, relationships become more harmonious."