在他們面前你要穩定自若，不要用你的懷疑苦惱他們，也不要用你的信心或歡悅驚嚇他們，這是他們所不能了解的。同他們尋找出一種簡單而誠摯的諧和，這種諧和任憑你將來怎麼轉變，都無需更改。
只是靜觀身旁的忙碌，目光依然過於鋒利，不參與也不迴避，已是一種讓人尷尬的存在，像一道刺眼的光，審視眼前的一切，讓人不自在。
來了一朵雲，舒緩了炙熱的空氣，讓光線趨於和緩，成為可被接受的溫暖，被渴望的陪伴。原文
......and be assured and gentle with them and do not plague them with your doubts or frighten them with your confidence or your joyfulness, which they cannot understand. Look for some kind of simple and loyal way of being together with them which does not necessarily have to alter however much you may change......
《 Letters to a Young Poet 》
-Rainer Maria Rilke
