Fourth step : compare the thing you write and other people write
everyone is lack of knowing theirselves, so i believe that it will help when you get different opinion and your opinion to add together ,may be you will find the other side of yourself.
Five step : use one day to be with yourself
the most common way to find yourself and know more yourself is to spend one day accompany yourself and think about how and why you now doing that things or job
My experience
I am a freshman in university now and I believe that I learn and know more about how to accept myself and know more myself. In senior high or junior high school , the thing i thought is to increase my test score and let my parents feel happy. However, I didn’t think why i need to study or what I have to get a good score. I just thought that my parents will be happy when I get a good score.The time that i change my mind is in summer vacation. i tried to access other different things, it is not like the procedure that in high school. I start to figure out that it has not absolutely right or absolutely wrong. the more I learn is that how or why i do that, and who I am.
Moreover, the thing i do is to accept myself, i want to know myself more, and I start to use the ways that I write above the passage. Fortunately, it is work for me.
The less thing I want to say is the time that you want to accept yourself is not important at all. Even though, you are 70 or 80years old, you also can find yourself and accept yourself.
Time is not the important thing, the more important thing is go straight to yourself.
